First dates can be awkward, but there are some things that you should know before you ever agree to go out on a date with. someone stay tuned to find out what you should do if the restaurants kitchen catches on fire while you and your date are eating new around here.
This now on to ten things everyone should know before first date shoes, everyone wants to look good on a first date, but you don’t want to look great at the cost of comfort, which is why you should know if you can walk in those high heels that you picked out before ever stepping foot on the date, can you imagine walking around all night teetering about to fall because you didn’t test the shoes out beforehand it, would be so awkward and probably make your date wonder what is wrong with you, if you want the evening to go smoothly make sure to get those shoes a trial run beforehand, you will never regret this decision.
Your date’s name:
We get it in the age of tinder and other dating apps, you probably talk to a lot of potential Beau’s, but before you ever actually go out with one you should make it a point to learn his name, if you are bad at remembering names, just try to think of something that his name rhymes with for. instance if his name is Mike that rhymes with spike or Nate rhymes with late what, you definitely don’t want to be on your first date. try using this little trick to ensure that you never forget your date’s name, it could save you a lot of awkwardness across the dinner table.
do you have certain food allergies? then you should definitely know where you were going before you agreed to a date with someone, what if you’re allergic to shellfish and the place that he suggested only serves seafood, if you are unfamiliar with the restaurant that you are going to be sure to look it up before committing to go on the date. The worst thing that you could do is just go on the date and hope for the best, even if you don’t have food allergies it’s good to know what kind of place you’re going to, so you don’t end up having to choose between food you dislike and hate.
When you were younger, you probably imagined a fairy tale date scenario, where you would go out with the guy and he would pay for everything. nowadays some guys don’t do that is an important thing to know that way you can prepare and always have your own money ready, just in case he decides to go dutch, can you imagine how awkward it? would be if the bill came and he asked for separate checks and you didn’t have any money mortifying, so just always be prepared and you will never have to go through such an awkward situation.
this one should really go without saying, no one wants to have their time wasted, the easiest way to avoid wasting your date’s time is to make sure that you aren’t late for the date, double-check what time you both agreed to meet, then check that against, the things that you have planned for the day to make sure you will have enough time to get ready and meet him, this is the first time that he will be meeting you so you shouldn’t make him wait around for 30 minutes for you to show up, it’s just super impolite and could leave a bad taste in his mouth.
you might think that being quite and dimmer is cute, but newsflash it’s not at least not on a first date, first dates are supposed to be where you decide, if you like the other person neither one of you will be able to figure that out if you don’t talk beside skies like a girl that they can have great conversations with this will make the night go by a lot faster and be a lot more fun besides would you really want to date someone that you had to be quiet around all the time, we definitely wouldn’t so speak up and see what happens.
Things in common:
Hopefully, you have talked to the guy at least a little bit before agreeing to go out on a date with him, those conversations will come in handy, because you should always know if you have anything in common with the person before you go out with them, that way you can have some go to conversation points to bring up throughout the night. stop him on Facebook a little bit, see what he likes is he into basketball, are you ?- great, you can talk about your favorite teams, does he like to travel? perfect another great topic to bring up. now in what you guys have in common before going on the date is a great way to ease your nerves and get the conversation flowing first impressions in case you didn’t know.
Are everything this person probably knows very little about you, other than what you show him on the date, so put your best foot forward brush your hair, put on makeup, put a little extra effort in be kind to the waiters and waitresses at the restaurant, that you go to be on time, present yourself in the way that you would want some to think of you, if you want him to see your funny side, make a few jokes, if you want him to see your kind side give him a few compliments, put your best foot forward, because the impression will definitely last.
Sometimes dates don’t go as planned and that is something you should be prepared for, don’t be so preoccupied with everything, going perfectly that you can’t enjoy the night, save the kitchen sets on fire at the restaurant, you’re eating at and you all have to evacuate, that’s not the end of the world you can pick another place to go if you know that, at least one thing will probably go wrong on the date it will be easier for you to go with the flow and wouldn’t you rather come off as easygoing rather, than a girl that stresses out about everything.
Love at first sight:
If you have watched a lot of Disney movies than this one’s for you in romantic comedies love at first sight, is pretty common in the world, the first dates it’s not at all, so don’t go into it expecting to feel the world stopped. as soon as you look into his eyes, that probably won’t happen and that’s okay. love can grow over time don’t put so much pressure on the first date to tell you if the guy’s your future husband, if you do fall in love at first sight great, but if you don’t, just know it’s completely normal and doesn’t mean that you won’t eventually develop feelings for the other person, so don’t put any pressure on yourself or your date. that’s it for 10 things everyone should know before first date. do you feel more prepared to go out with your crush now?
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